You’ve been going through a lot. I get it. Some of it matters, some of it doesn’t. And you know that. But still, you’ve been going through a lot. And you just said, “The next person who crosses that line is going to get smacked.”
What concerns me is that when you say that, when I say that, we just decided to be belligerent. We are ready to vent with whoever that is. We are ready to take all the tension of the last week, all the arguments from everyone, all the things that broke today, from fingernails to transmissions to hearts, and put it in bucket. We’re going to put that bucket above the door and tie a string to the doorknob. And if we forget to fasten the bucket firmly and it falls rather than dumps, well, sorry. Sometimes things like that happen. Like to our transmission.
In that time between placing the bucket and the next person coming in, we really don’t want to stop and read Paul’s caution: Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
This comes in the middle of several similarly painful comments that make you want to make Paul himself be the next guy through the door. What does he know about conflict, about transmissions, about people who seem to delight in making your life miserable? After all, he’s the great apostle.
But he also is the guy who ran into hecklers and false accusations and angry mobs everywhere he went. He’s the guy who weeps because he cares so much. That’s who says “wage peace.”
How’s he do it? God only knows.
Oh, wait.
Rich Dixon
You’ve given us one of those lasting images that distinguish excellent writers. Long after the words fade, that image of the garbage-filled bucket over the door, waiting for some unsuspecting person to walk through and get dumped on, will endure.
Thanks.
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Jon Swanson
you are welcome. and thank you.
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foodforme207
Uncannily well timed. Thanking God right now for messaging me.
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Jon Swanson
glad to help
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Rich Dixon
And then I encounter this from another respected voice telling me it’s important to “pick a fight” sometimes: http://www.markbatterson.com/uncategorized/pick-a-fight/
My take…it ain’t simple and there aren’t any formulas and you need to choose words carefully.
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Jon Swanson
it’s almost that one is a reaction and one is a response. And I like your summary Rich.
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