Learning to take counsel.

More on developing practical skills for hearing God better:

Yet I am always with you;
    you hold me by my right hand.
You guide me with your counsel,
    and afterward you will take me into glory.

Psalm 73:23-24

If we cannot take counsel in any part of our lives, it will be hard to take counsel from God.  And that’s part of what hearing God involves. We ask questions about what we should do. We want direction. We say that we wish God would just tell us what to do.

So let’s find out how good we are at taking counsel. Here’s an exercise to try this weekend.

I should explain that I separate counsel from counseling. The latter focuses on a process, often requires training, and uses a framework for helping. Counsel focuses on the words, ideas, content that one person offers to another for guidance.

  1. Find a wise person. This is a simple part of the exercise. Find someone you know and that knows you whose opinions you and other people trust. And it should be someone who won’t scold you for being stupid when you ask a serious question. Instead, this wise person should be able to be encouraging and offer clear counsel.
  2. Now that you have identified your wise person, ask them if they will help you find wisdom in a specific situation.
  3. And then pick a question to ask them. It should be a question that involves action. “Should I do this or that? Do I need to respond to this need? Is there a problem in this situation that requires me to do something?” This is not a “What should I do with my life” moment. After all, this is an exercise to practice taking counsel. And starting small is wise.
  4. Ask the question, have the conversation, and then come back next week for some reflection questions.

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About Jon Swanson

Social media chaplain. Author of "Lent For Non-Lent People" and "A Great Work: A Conversation With Nehemiah For People (Who Want To Be) Doing Great Works." Writer of 300wordsaday.com. I help people understand. Understand some of the Bible. Understand what Lent can be about. Understand what it means to follow.