Practical steps.

“How did you know about running at a conversational pace?” Tim said.

Paul smiled. “And happy Wednesday to you, too. Are your legs feeling okay after our run on Monday?”

“They are,” Tim said. “And that’s why I’m curious about how you knew about running at a slower pace than I usually run. After we were done talking, or after you ran away, I realized that I had run further than I usually run and that I hurt less. It was great advice. So, did you make it up?”

Paul shook his head. “I read about it several years ago.  From a number of running writers. So I tried it. I did most of my running a little slower than my capacity. And I discovered that it helped my last longer.”

“How do you stay slow?” Tim asked. “And why is your conversational pace faster than my gasping pace? And how did you know to follow that advice?”

Paul ran for a bit. Tim could tell that he was thinking.

“I think there are several issues you are raising,” Paul finally said.  “Let me see if I understand them and then I can answer them in order. First, you are looking for practical advice about how training works. Second, you are wondering how to compare experience with youthful energy. And third, you are wondering about how to determine whose teaching to trust? Does that seem accurate?”

Tim nodded. “I have a lot more questions, but those will do to begin.”

Paul laughed. “I know. When they get over their shyness, new runners are full of questions. You are going to need to help me remember my answer to your third question. Ezra. Remind me to tell you about Ezra. He’s my favorite person for talking about what kinds of people and advice to trust. But I want to take care of the short answers first.”

Tim started typing on his phone. “I’ll remind both of us.”

“Let’s start with your second question,” Paul said. “Never fall into the trap of comparing someone else’s middle with your beginning. In running, in writing, in understanding stuff about God. Use someone else’s apparent expertise as an opportunity to learn from them rather than as a way to criticize yourself.”

Tim nodded. “I’ve just started improving at that skill. Just in the last week or so.”

Paul ignored the compliment. “On your first question, I quit listening to music and started listening to podcasts. Because they are conversational, I can keep my pace better. (And it’s challenging to listen to Joel Runyon talking about doing impossible things at 37.) Look for really simple practical acts. It’s why I pray every morning and every evening. If I see the sun coming up, it reminds me to talk to God.”

Paul started to speed up, slowly, like he always did. Tim did his best to keep up. “What do you talk about?”

Paul smiled. “Lately, I’ve been talking about you. See you Friday.”

2 thoughts on “Practical steps.

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  2. Elaine Stauss

    Self -critique and self- criticism seems so normal to me. I want to learn and improve. Most of society tries to choose for us the standard for all life. It creates constant attitude of comparison vs positive personal evaluation and acceptance. Thanks for teaching this.


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