Me. Right now.

I find it easy to get overwhelmed by the immensity of challenges large and small. When I look at political discussions, I can chase down avenues of doubt and chaos. When I listen to stories of pain in other parts of the world, I freeze. My pain is nothing compared to theirs, and I cannot […]

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Learning wisdom a day at a time.

Chip and Dan Heath write, “Proverbs are helpful in guiding individual decisions in environments with shared standards. Those shared standards are often ethical or moral norms. Proverbs offer rules of thumb for the behavior of individuals” (Made to Stick, 47-48). Recently, I read this after a conversation with a friend about reading a chapter of […]

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The morning after

(First published May 24, 2011) You make a new commitment. You watch a friend die. You finally decide. You screw up. You get the award. You finish the book. You make the call. You answer the call. You finish. You start. You can’t figure it out. You didn’t get to sleep. You won. You lost. […]

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How do I pick something for Lent

Lent starts today. Some of you are leading groups who will be reading Lent for Non-Lent People. You may have people who ask, “How do I figure out what to give up?” Or you may be wondering yourself. A couple general ways to think: Simply ask yourself, “What helpful, beneficial action do I know would […]

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fasting from keeping things available.

Tomorrow is Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent. I’m thinking about fasting from keeping things available. I know that sounds odd. Many people would respond, “Oh, you mean that you are going to put things away!” And it would be clear that they are neat people. But I don’t leave things out. I don’t intentionally […]

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