“How do you want to be when you grow up?”
I was talking with a couple of high school seniors. They were asking some questions about resources. I like to have context for the recommendations I make. So I asked “How do you want to be when you grow up?”
They looked at me quizzically. “Can you tell me more?”
I could ask “What do you want to be?” But that’s an almost pointless question for a high school senior. Or for a mid-fifties executive pastor. As a high school student, I couldn’t have dreamed of my career steps, from IT to college teaching to pastoring.
When I asked them “how”, I was interested in the kind of souls they want. I’m interested in the kind of character they are pursuing. If they want to be compassionate and passionate, courageous and committed, intelligent and wise, I can make suggestions.
- Look at Ruth’s devotion to Naomi to understand what love and service look like.
- Study Nehemiah’s thoughtful handling of conflict to understand a way to pray and act.
- Consider the implications of Ezra’s commitment “to study the law of the Lord and to practice it, and to teach His statutes and ordinances in Israel.”
- Follow the advice of James for those who lack wisdom: he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.
- Read 12 ways to better understand being a disciple.
I don’t know what you will be in 10 years. Or in 7 weeks. I do know that we can take steps to consider how we will be. We can work on the habits that will help. We can make commitments to God and to others.
On this Ash Wednesday, as you consider the next 47 days til Easter, “How do you want to be?”